Almost a week before, a sixteen year old was held, for allegedly meticulously planning for rape and then killing a five year old girl in Gujrat.
As a renter in his victim's house, this teenager had also allegedly committed thefts, which were discovered by his landlord, who then threw him out of the house, besides realizing the loss from their daughter.
Naturally, now his parents are in a state of disbelief.
"In today’s time, Youngsters like to live as if adolescence were a last fling at life, rather than a preparation for it "
During the 2010, the news of a Gurgaon based school student of eight or ninth standard shooting dead one of his schoolmates with his father’s pistol, spread the shocking undulation, throughout the country and the people. Unbelievable, how could an adolescent of 8th standard take such a brutal step, irrespective of the fact that his victim was reportedly a big bully in school, and the accused had decided to clear up the debt with his tormentor with the help of his father’s pistol.
This experience voiced a debate in the media, and reasons like changed habitat circumstances of today, and over exposure to mass media which in turn has been accused of glamorizing hostility to some extent, especially through television, cinema, video games etc. were floated. Initially such accidents were named the influenced of western culture. But comparing the facts and number of such incidents are colossal in number than complete Europe. Rape, Theft, burglary, Honour Killing, abduction and such kind of crime are only the gift of poverty, lack of education, incomplete knowledge, racism and of individual insecurities. Any kind of relativity with Europe for our dirt mentality will be stupid opinion, we were always considered as luddite for our absurd thinking and bias consideration for particular.
This incident has reminded of past memories of my own days as a youngster almost one and half decade’s back. The place and times were totally different as compared to the present days. A small village of Haryana, where I grew up as a child. More conservative in outlook and traditional in approach. Fear of elders, school teachers, and parents was motivating force in the day to day lives.
I recall when I was in class 8th; My cousin was engaged in a bitter rivalry with one of his classmates, and coincidentally belong from the same colony where we used to stay those days. Both of these used to share comments to be at each other’s faces, and during the school recess, lot of times, they were engaged in a free style wrestling match with each other almost similar in WWE fashion.
Things became so bad between them , that in order to settle scores with this ‘enemy’ of his, he befriended two of his other classmates who were considered to be muscular. These three of similar size for one mission agreed to help each other, and with the help of some local street boys decided to teach a lesson to enemy. But fortunately, things finally cooled down between both of them, before things went out of control, and any disastrous incident took place.
Then, I also remember a big bully in our colony who was a couple of years senior to me. He used to get that sadistic pleasure in bullying everyone including me, calling absurd names of mine. Chasmish, Motuu etc etc. As he was physically stronger than me those days, and in one on one combat sure defeat was assured. Coincidently, there was another friend of mine from the same locality who too was fed up with this bully.
Once, he told me that some of his street boys are real goons, and they could help us to settle scores with this bully. Finally, we decided to help each other in this regard, and two days later, we arranged 50rs to pay to them and managed to bring that bully to a nearby playground, where those goons were waiting. Immediately, they jumped on this bully, thrashed him and delivered a stern warning to him that if he did not mend his ways, he may not live too long. Both my friend and I were really pleased over this accomplishment of ours.
But that evening, the parents of this bully landed over at my place, and filled my parents ears about whole incident, about being socializing of me with street boys to teach lesson to his child...blabla.
My parents were simply astonished, and I remember Dad giving me a lecturer and a hard slap for my stupidity and innocence. As both family had regards for each other, things were sorted out there and then. Even his son mended his ways.
Now, when I look back in these two incidents, triggered the important point about the teenage time, where it is most influential time to decide his future journey, and burden the responsibility on parent’s shoulders to take care of a child of that age.
Certainly every child wish their parents to pick their broken pieces in their lives and bail them out. And it always been a problem for every generation people to proper care for his teenage child, Spending time, knowing their small-small good bad habits, knowing mental dilemma of child, what they want to be, sexual knowledge is must. As half information is always dangerous, kind of crime and mental dilemma of person in affluent and developing countries always differs.
For all the parents whose children have reached that ‘danger zone’ called teenage, it is thus very important to maintain that proximity and comfort level with their children so that the latter do not hesitate even a bit to tell their problems or confusion to their parents. The problem does not rest there, once the parents are aware of the problems or confusion faced by their teenaged wards, they should test their own analytical and communication skills to enable their teenaged wards inspire the right thought process, and do not let themselves on the wrong path, at the end of which there could be nothing but untold misery for their wards. Of course, such parents would also be condemned to suffer in the bargain. But here also a deep understanding, adjustment between and past and future generation is must, else nothing will work. Misinterpretation of objects and materials hinders the pure growth of a teenage.
Needless to add, but parents must have to understand the kind of customs/routine they want to see in their child, must be followed by the parents also, else it will be injustice.
Manish Solanki
other than shopping, in Lajpat Nagar Market of Delhi. One of the attractions of this market is the Mehndiwalas (Henna appliers) sitting on the pavement. They will adorn beautiful hands of you with beautiful henna designs in no time at all. 3’c is the multiplex where you can fun along with the shopping in Westside store. This market also has some watering delicacies to offer. One such delicacy is the steaming Momos sold by the Tibetan ladies, Aaloo chat, pakode wala
Well, along with the shopping it is a good place for couples, many couple can be seen with hand in hand closely walking with each other. I know guys what you want to hear, “PANI” Pani of Lajpat Nagar, most fantabulous sight or nightmare of every youngsterJ. Writing more to that will be harsh so visit the once to Lajpat Nagar market and you will spot it very easily. 
Especially in Markets like Lajpat Nagar call for excellent bargaining skills, so if you doubt that you will not be able deal with the shopkeepers then take along a shopping enthusiast or go with girls, they are good in bargains and chances of deduction in amount to be paid will be more,. The market is very diversified and one can find home furnishings shops, specified Groom trousseau stores, Indian and western accessories shops (both stores and stalls). The shoes and the bags sold are very chic and worth giving an arm for. The market also has a lane especially for brides called “Garam Gali”, where you get the latest 'inspired' designs in bridal wear. 
Perhaps these places will not exist for long, FDI and other government policies can apocalypse the habitat of versatility. I don’t know whether for our child or grandchild it all will available for so long or they will be finding them in books and web. So,I have decided to compile these memories as collection for future generation as a story, story of market.
We wear our hearts on our body, not only apparels but everything
that we wish for, so along with apparels, “Shoes are the best instrument, to
know about people, their feeling, emotions" says Associate Professor V P Singh, NIFT-
N Delhi. . He can chart the rise and fall of prosperity of shoes from
the elevation of a heel, change in pattern of design, toe measurement, technological
advancement and psychological impact.
Mr Singh; One with an mature understanding of Shoes and Human, surely can describe the personality type. he named them Designer, they can tell what they thought about their design, design of that shoe, for every design they has a commodity and what opinion they made truly based on their understanding of those people, and of-course people of similar 
Every shoe has a saga, saga of its wearer; which speak of position,
sex (M/F), civilization, religion, profession, and politics or I can say the
shoes of the dead have a life all their own.
Historian
tells about the relation of shoes and Greeks, where they were named first and
later the Romans, who provided the root for many of our present day footwear
styles, including soccus, sandalium and muleus (sock, sandal and mule). During
the late Roman (Byzantine) empire, Christian morality deemed it sinful to
expose the body. St Clement of Alexandria in the third century AD Preached
humility for woman who showed their toes. Byzantine footwear covered the feet
and shoes replaced the sandals that both men and women had worn for centuries.
By the middle of
the seventeenth century France had become a beacon of style for all of Europe
to emulate. While in 18th and 19th century, The excess of decorative were indulged under prestigius fashion labels: Prada, Fendi, Gucci, Salvatore Ferragamo, Miu Miu, Hogan, Tod's, Dolce e Gabana, Valentino, Armani, Sergio Rossi and Manolo Blahnik. Wihch was favoured by European nobility, spread throughout fashionable
society. Slowly but effectively from 1600 to 2012, it has developed an interest
in leather shoes to high thin-heeled shoes, sports shoes to advanced technological
shoes, and still in experimentation with various silhouette. Hardly there would
be few English alphabets not named for shoe.
And, a true son, charming baby to his mommy ‘Pynk’. 
And offcourse who can forge this word, “kaaluuuuuuuuuuuuu, abbey
tujhe hi bol raha hoon...and lovebite as an after-effect ha ha ha”
"I KNOW YOU WANNA HEAR, SOMEONE TO CALL YOU GOOGY POOGY EARLY MORNING....."
